We are kicking her out. It's just been too much. I mean, she hasn't done anything really bad but there are clear signs of us simply being abused and no intentions of paying back our generosity. Now we don't expect an even pay out, that's the point of charging a modified rent, but we do expect at least some gratitude or reciprocity. I mean, she has only cleaned the dishes twice, had never made dinner, had ruined more than a few weekends, has told me she was to tired to hangout but snuck away to be with others (she could at least tell me and not lie), and worst of all is that has asked us to be more honest but has literally done the opposite of what we asked.
This whole thing has just been eye opening. She's not necessary a bad person, just incredibly selfish, but she is a bad friend to us. Me especially. We she had to escape her mom, she had nothing, nowhere to go. I convinced bear to let her move here because I knew the shitty situation she was in. I then bought her a bed to sleep on and helped move all her stuff with my mom's truck. That is only a small portion of shit I have done for her but whenever I asked to do something with her; like the movies, casino, bar, whatever, it was always no I'm too tired. Then, I'd see snaps of her hanging out, partying with other people. A few times, whatever, but when I told her it hurt me because I thought we were "best homies" but she ditches me literally every time, she then texts one guy drunk to try and set up a date but explicitly told him not to tell me. WTF?! I don't care she had other friends. I just care that I told her our friendship was on the rocks cuz of the shit she has pulled and literally less than 24 hours later she does the exact thing I told her upset me.
I'm just done. We are done. We need a friend who believes in give and take. Who doesn't get so drunk every time we go out that we are stuck babysitting her. Or so high that the at the concert that she pushed us to she's basically slobbering on herself. Or has literally ran off from us when we go out to try and have sex with some random dude . These aren't inheritly wrong but it's not the kind of friend we want. We feel like she has only used us as safe house and as a source of free food and activities. There has been no affection. No little gestures on her side to show she cares. Hell, when I was torn up because one of my best friends died suddenly all I got was an awesome from her but when her friend and her had a fight we had to take her out for a whole week cuz she was depressed...
It's just been too much and we would be happier with either no one living with us or if we had to, a much better friend, or at least someone who pays full rent.
Well, its gonna be awkward till she gone but it's time for us to be selfish in this relationship.
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